Friday, April 13, 2012

Men are from mars?

Sometimes I wonder, what is love to guys? Why some guys could change girlfriends like changing clothes? One after the other, it's either the guy lack of love, need companion as they would die without girls or just pure desperate?

I find it disgusting to see that the girl beside the guy has been changing. Whatever happen to "I love you"? It's just like saying "sorry" or "thank you" without much significance. "sorry" and "thank you" have become one of the words that has been widely abused. When you knocked into someone, the immediate response is to say "sorry". It's not from the bottom of the heart anymore.

Same goes to I love you. Whatever happen to I love you? The meaning of that 3 words no longer contain significance to the person who said it out. At least that's what I think from my point of view.

"I always love you" it's bullshit. But girls tend to fall for it. I used to be one of the victim. Now I'm not. Girls are suckers for sweet coating words. They are easy prey when it comes to this. Guys always said they don't understand girls. I think it's guys who are even harder to understand. What were they thinking when they told the new girlfriend that "I love you" when they may have just bid goodbye to a few year relationship? Doesnt it sound dubious when they can quickly adapt to a new girl and "love" that girl that fast? I guess that's the difference between men and women in general.

But sometimes I do admire these type of guys because they can pick up themselves real fast. However, the mere thought of the promises they have made really turns me off. This post is definitely biased towards guys probably because I haven met someone that can change my opinion of guys. It somehow makes me wonder do good guys still exist?

Someone once told me that even the most honest guy would cheat you somehow. It may not be physical, but mentally. I guess the degree of betrayal differs from one person to the other.

How should I learn to love someone again?

Ps: exam is round the corner. That explains my hormone imbalance ><

6 comments:

Gary Chen said...
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Gary Chen said...

Some guys dont fall deep so they dont really feel much. Dont really know how to love again lol i never in relationship before also so no comments. Good luck for your exams!

CHAI LENG said...

Then they engaged in a few years rs for? Companionship? Find an escort then!

Anyway thanks :)

Gary Chen said...

Dont know what they are thinking lol

gimhsiang said...

Lols, sometimes, you got to know. Not all guys are bad. (=

CHAI LENG said...

Good guys are hard to find.

:/

I don't need one now. So is okay!